Showing posts with label gender. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gender. Show all posts

Monday, 26 November 2012

that's what i men-t

so we all know that men and ladies are fundamentally different but exactly how do they differ when it comes to fashion and shopping? well, i thought it would be nice to look at the degree of difference before we go into the whole routine of do's and don't in the week to come.

image from foxy lady


much larger percentage of women have placed greater emphasis on what they wear as an expression of who they are, than men. the vast majority of men with whom i have worked and observed wear some variation of the professional ‘uniform’ – suits, shirts and ties – while women are a much more varied bunch, with a significant number more likely to wear ‘statement’ clothing as part of their expression of self. men may experiment at some level with their dress but in my experience it tends to be low key and not designed to distract from their work skills. 

Hollywood couples: note the difference in fashion

women’s statement clothing is more likely to be designed to make another person notice the clothes and/or the body first. this type of clothing can be designed: to stand out from a sea of grey-suited men with a splash of vibrant colour; to reinforce a sense of individuality; to showcase a figure; or to indicate that the wearer is up to date with the latest fashions. like a peacock, this show of feathers can be an overwhelming and distracting part of the first impression formed in a professional situation, particularly in the world of communications and public relations, where understanding the impact of visual image is an element of the job. It can also make gender a far more prominent part of the first impression.


shopping is considered as female activity. to keep a sense of masculinity, some men avoid go shopping. the difference view of shopping between women and men construct the different shopping behaviors. men’s shopping is driven by the need. women’s shopping is motivated by reasons of enjoyment and relaxation. there is clear preference between women and men in shopping. women like going shopping for fashions cosmetics, clothes and accessories, while men like going shopping for electronic and high-tech devices. 

men shopping: a rare sight?

thus, women spend more time than men in shopping. however, men tend to spend more money in shopping than women in the context of comparable activities. men’s shopping activities can happen when the existence of need is established. men think that window-shopping and browsing is a waste of time. although men concern with price; however, they would rather give more value to time than money. instead of spending time visiting many retailers and comparing price and products, men prefer to pay higher price to keep shopping time to a minimum time.

Men versus Women

so now you know how men are wired!

fash'on... BAM!

Sunday, 11 November 2012

fl@me or fr@me: fashion slop

'the purpose of education is to replace an empty mind with an open one.' 
malcom s. forbes

having managed the blog for about two months, 'fl@me or fr@me' has become a feature for me to evaluate my own blog against the material that other fellow bloggers put out. it is somewhat a personal benchmark. each week, i sift through about five to ten blogs before deciding which one to feature and it is only when the final line is written that my conclusion is determined. 

Fashion Slop

this week, however, is slightly different. the moment i read about the blogger, i know that i am (1) not going to be friends with this blogger (2) it's a 'fl@me' regardless of content. why the rage and displeasure? read on...


if you look at the history of the world in the last century, the state of sexuality has made the least progress. i am not just talking about lgbt (lesbians, gays, bisexuals, transexuals) rights but even the gender stereotypes. people are still battling multiple prejudices in many societies so don't get me started about the state of men, women and lgbt. am i about to encourage ladies to burn the bra or wave the rainbow flag? nope. however, i am just disgusted by people who advocate stereotypes. some of you might think that i am being overly harsh since he is probably seeking a state of contrast. well, use your own cultural or social background instead of basing it on gender stereotypes.

the creative brain behind fashion slop is ryan pak, someone who declares himself as the 'gayest straight guy'. so what is 'gayest'? obviously, there is a certain prejudice and stereotype that he is referring to. 


gayest of them all?

anyway, if you are into lengthy, floppy hair and layering your clothes, welcome to the world of 'gayest'! for someone who is a fashion student, his mindset is shocking. the world of fashion challenges boundaries, breaks barriers and embraces differences but ryan pak shows none. 

so here's my advice: stay in school because your ignorance has fried your brains. (oh! by the way, these icons are all openly gay. ryan pak, anyone you find 'gay-er' than you?)

Elton John
Matthew Mitcham
Adam Lambert
Taiga Ishikawa

fash'on... BAM!